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13. Обретение уверенности | metanymous | ||||
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Re: никто за вас ваши проблемы не решит | eugzol |
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http://community.livejournal.com/metapractice/211844.html?thread=4586372#t4586372
Итак, первая из шести основных проблем, по мнению Ричарда, ‑ это проблема нерешительности, неуверенности. К сожалению, люди часто из‑за этой проблемы не предпринимают теx действий, которые могли бы привести их к достижению целей. Многие люди сдерживают себя, если они считают, что действия для достижения цели являются «неправильными». Но пока они сидят и ничего не делают, мир не стоит на месте. Однако есть одна вещь, по отношению к которой люди редко испытывают нерешительность. Это страх. Страх ‑ это то, что вы делаете, ‑ боитесь.
Fear doesn't come from nowhere. You have to do something to be afraid. - Richard Bandler.
Страх не приходит из ниоткуда. Вам приходится что-то делать, чтобы быть испуганным. - Ричард Бандлер.
I have always been fascinated by our ability to influence our fellow humans. I have also been a big fan of magic. Sometimes I use my NLP skills to read what a person is thinking. Although this baffles people, it is not a psychic experience or a magic "trick" but simply accomplished by using notions in NLP, such as sensory calibration, submodality eye accessing cues (which I learned from Eric Robbie), and certain language patterns.
The reason I do this is not to try to show off or to purely entertain. Most of the time, I am demostrating what you can do when you stay outside of your head and stop thinking too much. The reason we talk about using the mantra to shut up the thoughts inside youк head is to enable you to actually see and hear what is there in the real world.
People ask me, "Do you work with the blind and the deaf?" My answer is, "Every day... every day". - Richard Bandler
You see, one of the biggest problems people have is that they don't spend enough time making themselves feel really good and spinning or intensifying good feelings through their body. The things people usually experience while they relax into trance include feeling relaxed and breathing deeply and effortlessly. Also, their bodies feel comfortable and they find it easier and easier to imagine different things. Most people are fully aware of what's going on around them, but it's just easy to relax and listen to every word. It's kind oflike the state of mind you go into before you fall asleep, when you are drifting and daydreaming about different fantasies and ideas.
Richard is not perfect either. He is a normal human being with flaws, too. As he says himself, he has made more mistakes than most people. That is why he has learned so much. The key is not to make the same mistakes over and over again. So many people hold themselves back because they care about what others might think. They hesitate and wait and wait and wait. Their biggest problem is that they take themselves and their world too seriously. What people really need to do is to learn to lighten up and decide to feel good instead of trying to be important.
"Never get too serious. Too many people get serious and try to be "right" all the time. If you are not getting where you want to go in your life and still feel being right is the most important thing, more important than being happy, this is where you waste life's energy, and then, after ten years, you'll discover that you weren't "right", and it didn't matter." - Richard Bandler.
Obviously, while you are reading this book, it would be ridiculous to close your eyes. Instead, you can keep your eyes open and simply read yourself into a relaxed state. You see, you are not alone while you are reading, as your mind keeps alive the words of the author. A big problem that people frequently have is that they feel lonely. It's amazing when you think about all millions of people who are out there waiting to find somebody who let hesitation stop them. What's wonderful is that when you stop hesitating, being scared, thinking too much about it, and taking everything so seriously, you can create good feelings inside of you and just go for it - just like you can drift into a comfortable state of mind while you relax.
The biggest problem I find is that when people isolate themselves and make themselves ignorant, because ignorance leads to fear, fear to anger, and anger to violence, which leads to more ignorance. This cycle is part of what's perpetuated. The fact that the Muslim society and the West cut themselves off so much from each other is ridiculous. I don't believe that you should have governments run by religions. I think that's a bad thing; I think there should always be freedom of everything.