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bavi в посте Metapractice (оригинал в ЖЖ)

It's not that one way of talking approximates reality more closely than the other one. Whenever you start trying to decide that, you're gone. People who try to approximate reality fall into what we call "losing quotes." For example, once I was reading a Tolkien book out loud to some kids. One of the characters in the book, Strider, said to Frodo "Close the door," and one of the kids I was reading to got up and shut the door. That's losing quotes.
The biggest losing quotes of all is what we call the "lost performative" in the Meta-Model. The most dangerous, and I think the most lethal, is losing quotes on yourself and believing that your thoughts are reality: believing that people really are "visual," "kinesthetic," or "auditory"; believing that people really are "placators," "super-reasonables," or anything. Believing that you actually have a "parent," "child," and "adult" is psychotic! It's one thing to use those constructs to do good work—to organize someone's behavior. It's quite another thing to lose quotes and believe that that's reality. So when you say "Well, this lie approximates what's 'really' going on more than the other one" be very careful, because you are on dangerous terrain. You might become a guru if you do that.
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