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Sure. Let's say someone comes in to buy an expensive car.
He is looking at one model, and he says "I can't see myself driving a car like this;
it's kind of racy and frivolous."
First you can say something like "Well, I certainly couldn't see myself in one that had racing stripes on it, or something gaudy like that" to pace his objection.
Then you go on to say "But having the quick acceleration and power that this car has is more than just a frivolous thing: it's really the safety of being able to get out of somebody's way quickly. This car handles better and performs better on wet and winding roads, and I certainly don't consider my safety to be frivolous."