Another reframe we're always making is "The meaning of yourcommunication is the response that you get." Most people don't thinkthat way at all. They believe that they know what the meaning of theircommunication is, and that if somebody else doesn't realize it, it's theother person's fault. If you really believe that the meaning of yourcommunication is the response that you get, there is no way that youcan blame others. You simply keep communicating until you get theresponse that you want. A world without blame is a very altered statefor most people!В последнем предложении настоящее активное длительное вместо сослагательного в переводе.response, кроме "реакции", переводится как "ответ", "отклик". Мне показалось, что "реакция" пресуппозирует большую заметность, чем тот же "отклик".